Resources.

Witnessing alcohol addiction in a close friend or family member elicits a wide range of emotions. Some feel frustrated, others sad, many helpless. Your feelings are valid, no matter how complex or contradictory they may seem.

I understand this is an incredibly difficult situation, and each person's experience is unique. Your emotions may fluctuate day to day, even hour to hour. Feeling restless and frustrated one moment and empathetic the next is completely normal. Do not judge yourself for the emotional rollercoaster.

The most important thing is that you access the right support for your specific needs. Counseling provides a safe space to process these complicated emotions. Support groups connect you with others going through similar struggles. With help, you can gain clarity and coping strategies.

Your well-being matters too. Attend to your mental health during this trying time. Through self-care and support, you can build resilience and be empowered to better aid your loved one. But first, be gentle with yourself. This is a journey, and all of your feelings along the way are valid. You are not alone.

I've compiled a list of recommended resources that may be beneficial as you navigate these challenges. This includes addiction education articles, mental health worksheets, and links to charity support groups. Please don't hesitate to reach out if you need help finding the right assistance for your specific situation. I'm here to support you and will do my best to connect you with useful information and compassionate services.

Charities

NACOA

Free, confidential advice and support for children of alcohol-dependent parents. We are here to listen. We won’t judge. We are here to help. Don't suffer in silence.

ADFAM

Adfam is the national charity working to improve life for families affected by drugs and alcohol.

PROPS

Improving the lives of families affected by alcohol and drug use. PROPS provides a wide range of support services such as: one-to-one support.

Hunan Kind Charity

The recovery journey also draws upon our charity's expertise in community and family work, residential rehabilitation, and employment support.

DrugFam

DrugFam is a charity that provides support for families affected by alcohol or drug dependency.

The Forward Trust

Forward’s family service supports people who are struggling with the impact of a friend or family member’s substance misuse, even if the drug or alcohol user isn’t ready to get help.

Counselling & Coaching

Based on my own positive experiences, I've compiled a list of counselors and coaches who I can personally recommend. These are not paid promotions, but professionals I know to be reputable and skilled.

The Self Development Coach

Johnny Lawrence aka The Self Development Coach is a certified behavioural change coach, level 3 counsellor, speaker and host of The Self Development Podcast.

Victoria Cumberlege

As a Certified Narcissistic Abuse Specialist and Trauma Recovery Coach, Victoria Cumberlege brings compassionate understanding to her clients who have endured emotionally abusive relationships and traumatic experiences.

Sober Dave

Unlock your freedom from alcohol addiction with sobriety mindset coach, Sober Dave, empowering you to break the cycle, regain control, and live a life of lasting sobriety.